Want to know how to get a woman to like you more than a friend at work or school? Sure you do. Here are 5 things you must do now!
1. The first thing you need to do is to become more masculine. Work on developing your masculine energy. Women are only attracted to men who are manly or masculine. It makes them feel feminine. They need to feel this polarity, in order to feel attraction to you. So develop traits that are characteristic of masculinity like confidence, dominance, mental toughness, indifference to public opinion, independence, drive, etc. On the flip side, if you are insecure, approval seeking, mentally and physically weak, make apologies for who you are and what you want, you can never create that polarized feeling. Consequently a woman can never be attracted to you. If you are clueless as to how to develop these key traits then let me help you and show you how to become a masculine male.
2. Turbo charge your body language. This is definitely a proven way of how to get a woman to want you bad.Understand that what you sub-communicate through your voice and body when you are speaking conveys a lot about your underlying inner game. It indicates whether you are weak(beta) or strong(alpha). For instance, speaking in a low-volume voice, talking fast, stuttering, tripping over your words, keeping your hands close to your body when you are sitting or walking, looking down or around are all indicators of weakness. They are antithetical to what being masculine is. On the other hand, when you speak with volume, inject deliberate pauses in your sentences, talk at medium speed, make strong eye contact with whomever you are speaking to, take up space with your arms and legs when you sit or stand, you sub communicate inner strength, confidence and ultimately masculinity. Hence, you will attract and command respect from those in your path, especially women. So stop walking and talking like a chump and start to act like a Boss.
3. You need to engage a woman’s emotions, when interacting with her. This is a surefire way also of how to get a woman to want you bad. You must understand that women select who they will mate with based on “feeling” rather than logic. This means that you should stop being boring, predictable, logical with a woman when trying to seduce and court her. Rather make her laugh, tease her, be spontaneous, make a bold statement that throws her off balance in a positive way, tell her an emotionally charged story about your childhood or how you got to be the person you are today, etc. The bottom line is this. If you can engage a woman’s emotions, you will attract her. Got it? Good!
4. You need to be physically and mentally tough and present yourself in the best light possible. There are 3 elements to this. Being as fit or built as you can be. So make sure you train, eat right, enroll in a Brazilian Jiu Jitsu or Boxing academy. The combination of these things will make you both look and become physically and mentally tough. Women are attracted to men that are strong bodied and minded. This doesn’t mean that you have to get ripped or look like you’re on the juice. However it does mean to look your best physically. Reduce the beer belly and man boobs and put on some size and musculature.
The second aspect of this is to develop mental toughness. Exercise or training will do this however you can engage in certain exercises or practices just to focus on increasing your mental toughness. Here’s a previous article I wrote on how to do that, that you may want to check out. The last thing you will want to do is to have some style. Dress well, get a cool haircut, smell good, groom yourself regularly. For instance if you have a beard, perhaps manscape it, style it. If you don’t have the ability or desire to grow facial hair then shave regularly and present yourself with a nice, clean cut face. Get it? Good!
5. The final thing you need to do, once you have started to master your inner game, non verbal game, toughness game and style game is to develop “Game” with women. This does not mean to coerce or manipulate a woman into liking you or into having a short term or long term relationship with you. It means to know how to cold approach a woman, knowing how to start a conversation with her, knowing how to express your interest in her in a confident but respectful and well calibrated way, knowing how to engage her mind and emotions, having a keen sense of if she is receptive to you or not then finally knowing how to close the gap or deal by asking her for her number or asking her out on a date. That’s it!
To be honest, if you can master, even one of these five areas, you will be leagues above the general masses of men. However try to master all 5 areas as it will make you both feel and appear more complete as a truly high status man. This is the truth about how to get a woman to like you at work, school or anywhere. It has nothing to do with having material wealth or a specific level of education or being good looking. It has everything to do with having a certain attitude, non verbal game and social skills.